aranger:
It got adjusted because its abhorrent to most of us to even think about tampering with a child.
Lets go down the asian route as long as the child consents.
You should be locked up buddy.
Where the zb is the connection between the average normal Asian arranged marriage and the type of zb which you’ve described related to the type of offence which Savile did.
You sound like one of the worst of the raving loony nutter age police to me.
For your information what Savile did had no relation whatsoever to an arranged marriage because the church doesn’t marry children to anyone and that pervert wasn’t looking for a wife.Although it’s obvious that adjustment to the raving age gap nutters means marrying 15 year olds to 17 year olds.
You said in a general way that the Asian route is the way to go so long as the girl consents.
We all know what the asian route is, girls barely out their nappies now you use the word normal.
Your prattling on about 40 year olds and 17 year olds being no different.
Your Dad marrying a child.
If thats not dodgy sounding then forgive my ignorance and explain what ages you are thinking about here.
is not the age police, its the peado Police.
So now you and your raving nutter age police want to dig up my dad for dating my 19 year old mum when he was around 26.
No mate it’s the raving age police dressed up as so called ‘paedo police’ and that’s where this witch hunt will end up going in the end with,just as I’ve said,people like Joe Philpot hauled off to jail and his family sent into care and his wife forced into a same age ‘relationship’ with a bloke of her own age wether she likes it or not.And then you’ve got the nerve to have a go at the Asian community.
For what it’s worth I think you’re having a laugh and on a wind up.So those girls on TOTP were there with their parents who saw what was going on.That sounds a bit like the bs of the Nolans saying (now) that they ‘would’ have killed Savile if he touched their sister Coleen while they stood there watching her giggling as he did exactly that.
Sorry wheelnut as in the case of me probably having been a better driver than many out there,maybe even yourself, (even if I do say so myself) but just didn’t get all the breaks I wanted,the same applies,but in far greater measure with my luck with women over the years,or at least the years when it mattered.When I go to my grave at least I’ll have the pleasure of knowing that I didn’t break any laws or hurt any woman in whatever way wether physically or emotionally and never would have done,unlike a lot of other zb’s out there.If only just one of them who I wanted had given me a chance in life instead of giving a divorcee another one.Although as I’ve said not surprising considering the type of media bs that was going on at the time turning the girls heads and widespread societal acceptance towards the idea of older blokes being with (sometimes much) younger women.Ironically unlike the situation now that I’m one of those older blokes myself.
All feel sorry for the bloke who didn’t get the breaks, even though he was probably better at a job he never did than the rest of us. Hey bud, you may well be a better driver but I have coped OK so far. I wouldn’t argue any other way. I am but a simple lorry driver with no skills, just a few years under my belt, and a few extra stones over it
All feel sorry for the bloke who didn’t have any luck with women, even though he was probably better at it than the rest of us!
If you want to bring luck into it, think yourself very fortunate you had your Father until he was 80 years of age and you still have your Mother to keep you off the streets and safe from predatory females, whatever the age.
Not asking for sympathy because it’s too late for that but my situation has a lot less to do with any of my shortcomings and mistakes in life than those girls who ended up in the hands of zb Savile had to do with their own decisions with a bit of help from the hypocritical zb British establishment which Henry V111 started off.
FarnboroughBoy11:
Carryfast,
Just because a 17 year old shags a 15 year old, doesn’t mean it’s ■■■■!! Your being a hypocrite as you say they are young enough to make decisions whether to go out on a date with a 40 year old but she can’t make a decision about when she wants to have ■■■ with someone.
A girl is of an age at 15 where she can decide to chat with a 17 year old or a 40 +year old but she’s not at an age at 15 to be able to consent to a ■■■■■■ relationship and if a 17 year old or a 40 year old then shags her,knowing that,then both are (should be) criminals of equal measure in the eyes of the law which effectively is the charge of statutory ■■■■.But obviously not in the zb’d up criminal views of those like yourself.
A date isn’t the same thing as ■■■ simples and that’s why Joe Philpot is still happily married not in prison.Although you obviously think the law should be applied with double standards just based on age gaps and obviously in which the effective intention is to ignore the meaning of the age of consent,as it stands at present,and reserving girls for blokes of their own age.Which is simply ageist.
Yes but the 40 year old is an adult, the 17 year old is not.
So you’re saying that if a 17 year old rapes or murders someone it’s not the same crime as if a 40 year old rapes or murders someone .
Assuming they’ve had a ■■■■■■ relationship with a 15 year old girl,they’d both have committed the same crime and they’re both over the age of criminal responsibility so they are (should be) both equal in the eyes of the law.It’s obvious that the agenda seems to be about changing societal views and the law to one in which it’s the age of the bloke and/or the age gap that matters not the age of the girl.Which,as I’ve said,isn’t exactly the way my dad would have seen it,if it had been his daughter,and I’d trust his judgement over yours thanks.
It’s the same crime but the 40 year old would be put on trial as an adult where as the 17 year old would be tried as a young offender unless they decide otherwise. You often hear young offenders being tried as adults.
A 40 year old has more responsibility for his own actions than a 17 year old when it comes to shagging teenagers.
aranger:
It got adjusted because its abhorrent to most of us to even think about tampering with a child.
Lets go down the asian route as long as the child consents.
You should be locked up buddy.
Where the zb is the connection between the average normal Asian arranged marriage and the type of zb which you’ve described related to the type of offence which Savile did.
You sound like one of the worst of the raving loony nutter age police to me.
For your information what Savile did had no relation whatsoever to an arranged marriage because the church doesn’t marry children to anyone and that pervert wasn’t looking for a wife.Although it’s obvious that adjustment to the raving age gap nutters means marrying 15 year olds to 17 year olds.
You said in a general way that the Asian route is the way to go so long as the girl consents.
We all know what the asian route is, girls barely out their nappies now you use the word normal.
Your prattling on about 40 year olds and 17 year olds being no different.
Your Dad marrying a child.
If thats not dodgy sounding then forgive my ignorance and explain what ages you are thinking about here.
is not the age police, its the peado Police.
So now you and your raving nutter age police want to dig up my dad for dating my 19 year old mum when he was around 26.
No mate it’s the raving age police dressed up as so called ‘paedo police’ and that’s where this witch hunt will end up going in the end with,just as I’ve said,people like Joe Philpot hauled off to jail and his family sent into care and his wife forced into a same age ‘relationship’ with a bloke of her own age wether she likes it or not.And then you’ve got the nerve to have a go at the Asian community.
Since when was 19 a child.
Every grown man should just keep their hands off the weans and we are sorted, doesn’t need any fancy new marriage laws or lessons from Asia about how to go about it.
aranger:
It got adjusted because its abhorrent to most of us to even think about tampering with a child.
Lets go down the asian route as long as the child consents.
You should be locked up buddy.
Where the zb is the connection between the average normal Asian arranged marriage and the type of zb which you’ve described related to the type of offence which Savile did.
You sound like one of the worst of the raving loony nutter age police to me.
For your information what Savile did had no relation whatsoever to an arranged marriage because the church doesn’t marry children to anyone and that pervert wasn’t looking for a wife.Although it’s obvious that adjustment to the raving age gap nutters means marrying 15 year olds to 17 year olds.
You said in a general way that the Asian route is the way to go so long as the girl consents.
We all know what the asian route is, girls barely out their nappies now you use the word normal.
Your prattling on about 40 year olds and 17 year olds being no different.
Your Dad marrying a child.
If thats not dodgy sounding then forgive my ignorance and explain what ages you are thinking about here.
is not the age police, its the peado Police.
So now you and your raving nutter age police want to dig up my dad for dating my 19 year old mum when he was around 26.
No mate it’s the raving age police dressed up as so called ‘paedo police’ and that’s where this witch hunt will end up going in the end with,just as I’ve said,people like Joe Philpot hauled off to jail and his family sent into care and his wife forced into a same age ‘relationship’ with a bloke of her own age wether she likes it or not.And then you’ve got the nerve to have a go at the Asian community.
Since when was 19 a child.
Every grown man should just keep their hands off the weans and we are sorted, doesn’t need any fancy new marriage laws or lessons from Asia about how to go about it.
Wtf is Joe Philpott.
When my mum was dating my dad she was legally a ‘child’ until the age of 21 just like 18 is today.
Who the zb is Joe Philpot. You obviously haven’t been reading the rest of the topic because if you had you’d know that we’ve got someone on here who’s shagged a girl of 15 while others are saying that Joe Philpot is a ■■■■■■■■■■ for dating a girl of 15 then waiting until she was 16 before having a family with her and then marrying her and they are still happily married with her in her 20’s.
You seem to be one of those talking total bollox about the idea of a 17 year old being considered as a ‘child’ so can shag a girl of 15 while a bloke of 54 shagging a girl of 16 is considered a paedo in your obviously zb’d up view.
If you really want US federal law then just say so so everyone know exactly where they stand.But if you’re then going to bring that in retrospectively then blokes like Joe Philpot and his family are zb’d.Welcome to the new vigilante justice nutter world.
FarnboroughBoy11:
Carryfast,
Just because a 17 year old shags a 15 year old, doesn’t mean it’s ■■■■!! Your being a hypocrite as you say they are young enough to make decisions whether to go out on a date with a 40 year old but she can’t make a decision about when she wants to have ■■■ with someone.
A girl is of an age at 15 where she can decide to chat with a 17 year old or a 40 +year old but she’s not at an age at 15 to be able to consent to a ■■■■■■ relationship and if a 17 year old or a 40 year old then shags her,knowing that,then both are (should be) criminals of equal measure in the eyes of the law which effectively is the charge of statutory ■■■■.But obviously not in the zb’d up criminal views of those like yourself.
A date isn’t the same thing as ■■■ simples and that’s why Joe Philpot is still happily married not in prison.Although you obviously think the law should be applied with double standards just based on age gaps and obviously in which the effective intention is to ignore the meaning of the age of consent,as it stands at present,and reserving girls for blokes of their own age.Which is simply ageist.
Yes but the 40 year old is an adult, the 17 year old is not.
So you’re saying that if a 17 year old rapes or murders someone it’s not the same crime as if a 40 year old rapes or murders someone .
Assuming they’ve had a ■■■■■■ relationship with a 15 year old girl,they’d both have committed the same crime and they’re both over the age of criminal responsibility so they are (should be) both equal in the eyes of the law.It’s obvious that the agenda seems to be about changing societal views and the law to one in which it’s the age of the bloke and/or the age gap that matters not the age of the girl.Which,as I’ve said,isn’t exactly the way my dad would have seen it,if it had been his daughter,and I’d trust his judgement over yours thanks.
It’s the same crime but the 40 year old would be put on trial as an adult where as the 17 year old would be tried as a young offender unless they decide otherwise. You often hear young offenders being tried as adults.
A 40 year old has more responsibility for his own actions than a 17 year old when it comes to shagging teenagers.
Like I said that isn’t how my dad would have seen it if someone had shagged his 15 year old daughter regardless of wether they were 17 or 40 and the same would have applied in my case if I’d have done the same thing to someone else’s 15 year old daughter regardless of wether I was 15,17 or 40 at the time.
With such hypocricy going on in the minds of the public at large this country is zb’d and deserves to go to hell in a zb handcart and it’s no wonder that it’s got crimes committed by ‘young offenders’ who think that they’re above the law.While no doubt that hypocricy goes far enough for those ‘young offenders’ to call blokes like Joe Philpot a ■■■■■■■■■■.
By the way as the law related to statutory ■■■■ applies retrospectively the bloke here who’s shagged the girl of 15 isn’t 17 now so he can be tried as an adult and be given an adult penalty.
aranger:
It got adjusted because its abhorrent to most of us to even think about tampering with a child.
Lets go down the asian route as long as the child consents.
You should be locked up buddy.
Where the zb is the connection between the average normal Asian arranged marriage and the type of zb which you’ve described related to the type of offence which Savile did.
You sound like one of the worst of the raving loony nutter age police to me.
For your information what Savile did had no relation whatsoever to an arranged marriage because the church doesn’t marry children to anyone and that pervert wasn’t looking for a wife.Although it’s obvious that adjustment to the raving age gap nutters means marrying 15 year olds to 17 year olds.
You said in a general way that the Asian route is the way to go so long as the girl consents.
We all know what the asian route is, girls barely out their nappies now you use the word normal.
Your prattling on about 40 year olds and 17 year olds being no different.
Your Dad marrying a child.
If thats not dodgy sounding then forgive my ignorance and explain what ages you are thinking about here.
is not the age police, its the peado Police.
So now you and your raving nutter age police want to dig up my dad for dating my 19 year old mum when he was around 26.
No mate it’s the raving age police dressed up as so called ‘paedo police’ and that’s where this witch hunt will end up going in the end with,just as I’ve said,people like Joe Philpot hauled off to jail and his family sent into care and his wife forced into a same age ‘relationship’ with a bloke of her own age wether she likes it or not.And then you’ve got the nerve to have a go at the Asian community.
Since when was 19 a child.
Every grown man should just keep their hands off the weans and we are sorted, doesn’t need any fancy new marriage laws or lessons from Asia about how to go about it.
Wtf is Joe Philpott.
When my mum was dating my dad she was legally a ‘child’ until the age of 21 just like 18 is today.
Who the zb is Joe Philpot. You obviously haven’t been reading the rest of the topic because if you had you’d know that we’ve got someone on here who’s shagged a girl of 15 while others are saying that Joe Philpot is a ■■■■■■■■■■ for dating a girl of 15 then waiting until she was 16 before having a family with her and then marrying her and they are still happily married with her in her 20’s.
You seem to be one of those talking total bollox about the idea of a 17 year old being considered as a ‘child’ so can shag a girl of 15 while a bloke of 54 shagging a girl of 16 is considered a paedo in your obviously zb’d up view.
If you really want US federal law then just say so so everyone know exactly where they stand.But if you’re then going to bring that in retrospectively then blokes like Joe Philpot and his family are zb’d.Welcome to the new vigilante justice nutter world.
My ■■■■■■ up view, you joking.
Not o/k for a 17 year old to shag a 15 year old but its fine if its on his mind.
16 is an Adult up here,you can do what you want, even vote now it would seem.
I would say a 54 year old shagging a 16 year old is a very sick thing indeed, I would certainly not be a happy bunny if it was my Daughter and if he is dragged off then good riddance.
So I am a Vigilante nutter for wanting to protect my Daughter even when she turns 16 and is officially an adult, back to the old posse days for me, I would stretch to maybe 19 and still keep my eye on him as she has a younger sister.
aranger:
It got adjusted because its abhorrent to most of us to even think about tampering with a child.
Lets go down the asian route as long as the child consents.
You should be locked up buddy.
Where the zb is the connection between the average normal Asian arranged marriage and the type of zb which you’ve described related to the type of offence which Savile did.
You sound like one of the worst of the raving loony nutter age police to me.
For your information what Savile did had no relation whatsoever to an arranged marriage because the church doesn’t marry children to anyone and that pervert wasn’t looking for a wife.Although it’s obvious that adjustment to the raving age gap nutters means marrying 15 year olds to 17 year olds.
You said in a general way that the Asian route is the way to go so long as the girl consents.
We all know what the asian route is, girls barely out their nappies now you use the word normal.
Your prattling on about 40 year olds and 17 year olds being no different.
Your Dad marrying a child.
If thats not dodgy sounding then forgive my ignorance and explain what ages you are thinking about here.
is not the age police, its the peado Police.
So now you and your raving nutter age police want to dig up my dad for dating my 19 year old mum when he was around 26.
No mate it’s the raving age police dressed up as so called ‘paedo police’ and that’s where this witch hunt will end up going in the end with,just as I’ve said,people like Joe Philpot hauled off to jail and his family sent into care and his wife forced into a same age ‘relationship’ with a bloke of her own age wether she likes it or not.And then you’ve got the nerve to have a go at the Asian community.
Since when was 19 a child.
Every grown man should just keep their hands off the weans and we are sorted, doesn’t need any fancy new marriage laws or lessons from Asia about how to go about it.
Wtf is Joe Philpott.
When my mum was dating my dad she was legally a ‘child’ until the age of 21 just like 18 is today.
Who the zb is Joe Philpot. You obviously haven’t been reading the rest of the topic because if you had you’d know that we’ve got someone on here who’s shagged a girl of 15 while others are saying that Joe Philpot is a ■■■■■■■■■■ for dating a girl of 15 then waiting until she was 16 before having a family with her and then marrying her and they are still happily married with her in her 20’s.
You seem to be one of those talking total bollox about the idea of a 17 year old being considered as a ‘child’ so can shag a girl of 15 while a bloke of 54 shagging a girl of 16 is considered a paedo in your obviously zb’d up view.
If you really want US federal law then just say so so everyone know exactly where they stand.But if you’re then going to bring that in retrospectively then blokes like Joe Philpot and his family are zb’d.Welcome to the new vigilante justice nutter world.
My [zb] up view, you joking.
Not o/k for a 17 year old to shag a 15 year old but its fine if its on his mind.
16 is an Adult up here,you can do what you want, even vote now it would seem.
I would say a 54 year old shagging a 16 year old is a very sick thing indeed, I would certainly not be a happy bunny if it was my Daughter and if he is dragged off then good riddance.
So I am a Vigilante nutter for wanting to protect my Daughter even when she turns 16 and is officially an adult, back to the old posse days for me, I would stretch to maybe 19 and still keep my eye on him as she has a younger sister.
No the 17 year old in this case says he actually shagged a 15 year old.
In the case of Joe Philpot if you’d have been his wife’s father both her and him could legally have told you to zb off and mind your own business.All that matters is that she loves him and he loves her and if you then wanted to apply vigilante justice then it’s you that would be done for it.You’re like all the rest of the zb’d up thinking Brits in thinking that US federal law applies here when it doesn’t (yet) /unless/until someone can show that we’ve now effectively got such a law in which case it would mean two different ages of consent one for over 18 blokes and one for under 18 blokes which only seems to apply at present in the case of teachers etc.
However,in your case,it’s obvious that the issue isn’t about the age of the girl at all it’s all about age gaps and even if we had US federal law you’d obviously still have exactly the same problem.Just be honest about it and say you’ve got issues concerning age gap relationships and then want to take advantage of the ■■■■■■■■■■ issue to justify that prejudice against what are legal relationships between older blokes and younger women.
So in that case supposing your daughter wanted to be with a bloke of 59 when she’s 25 would you still say he’s a paedo .
But no surprise that the Savile case seems to be all about a plan to introduce US federal law here.Which is obviously why they waited until the zb was dead.
Well you think its fine for a 54 year old to even get into a position where he even likes a 16 year old in that way and I think that makes you a very disturbed individual, take it you have no kids and are lacking the instincts that come with that territory.
I would say he is accepting the 16 year old but would have loved her to be younger, probably had his eye on her waiting.
Its a sick subject to which I won’t return.
Men should keep their deviant paws off the weans end of, I won’t be changing my mind.
aranger:
Well you think its fine for a 54 year old to even get into a position where he even likes a 16 year old in that way and I think that makes you a very disturbed individual, take it you have no kids and are lacking the instincts that come with that territory.
I would say he is accepting the 16 year old but would have loved her to be younger, probably had his eye on her waiting.
Its a sick subject to which I won’t return.
Men should keep their deviant paws off the weans end of, I won’t be changing my mind.
If only you’d have been the father of the 16 year old girl of my own age who gave me the cold shoulder in the 1970’s because she was dating a divorced bloke of 46 at the time and for me the rest was history and he’s still happily married to her over 35 years later.
But,as I’ve said,I’m now waiting to find a wife in the next life not this one where my age won’t matter anymore.
Suggest you read back through the topic you might learn something.
Wheel Nut:
Marriage under 21 was permitted with parents consent, even the soldier had to have a superior officers permission in wartime.
We also have to remember that people started full time work at 12, 14 or 15 years of age until 1972
It doesn’t matter my dad never had or needed parental consent to date my mum and he married her when she was 21 but I can’t get an answer as to wether her dad would have given permission for my dad to have married her before then.
The fact is outside of the USA the whole adult child official age bs doesn’t matter it’s just the age of consent that matters.(So far) but not for much longer.However it’s obviously all about the revulsion against age gap relationships,not the age of the girl,which have gradually reached fanatical levels ever since the establishment got what it wanted from Diana Spencer and now it won’t do morale with the young troops in ‘the war against terror’ any good if they think that all/any of their hopefully potential teenaged future WAG’s in the clubs at home are being taken by 30-55 year old blokes.
Whatever you say it wasn’t my fault that I ended up in the wrong place at the wrong time.
The jimmy savile case is about a grown man shaging minors against there will. The Jeremy forest case was about taking a minor out of the country and abusing a position of trust. Your 26 year old dad marrying your 19 year old mum is in no way to be condmed its not a huge gap in fact my grandad was about the same amount older than my grandad. What this philpot bloke did may not be illegal but its not ethical in my opinion and yes an18 year old sleeping with a 15 year old is illegal but its not the same as a 40 odd year old doing it.
You say your dad wouldn’t tolerate a 19 year old shaging his 15 year old but are you sure he would be happy for his 16 year old to shag a 50 year as its technically legal.
I started a row/discussion this morning with my wife who’s 27 years younger than me. I told her that CF didn’t think it were right that although we married 17 years ago the fact that I was a twice divorced older fella meant that I should have let her stay single for him.
kr79:
The jimmy savile case is about a grown man shaging minors against there will. The Jeremy forest case was about taking a minor out of the country and abusing a position of trust. Your 26 year old dad marrying your 19 year old mum is in no way to be condmed its not a huge gap in fact my grandad was about the same amount older than my grandad. What this philpot bloke did may not be illegal but its not ethical in my opinion and yes an18 year old sleeping with a 15 year old is illegal but its not the same as a 40 odd year old doing it.
You say your dad wouldn’t tolerate a 19 year old shaging his 15 year old but are you sure he would be happy for his 16 year old to shag a 50 year as its technically legal.
As I remember it he was one of the ones there with me and my mum at a family wedding between a 16 year old girl and her 47 year old divorcee huband.He was laughing,joking and dancing with the rest of them.I think though,that underneath all that,just as I was thinking,he didn’t give a zb about the age gap thing.Just that gnawing zb feeling that it wasn’t me instead of that zb who could be the bloke getting married to a girl of the same age.Especially in view of the irony of what had taken place in my case around almost 20 years before.Legal and love is all that matters not the age gap.
Although it would obviously have been to my benefit if the world of the 1970’s could have been exactly the same as the one of the 21’st century concerning societal revulsion against age gap marriages.Which explains the difference between the marriage of Prince Charles and Diana and his son and Kate Middleton and,as I’ve said,the softening up process by the BBC and media in order to make sure of and seal that difference,during the 1970’s,which I’m alleging contributed to zb’ing up my life and those girls on TOTP etc.
raymundo:
I started a row/discussion this morning with my wife who’s 27 years younger than me. I told her that CF didn’t think it were right that although we married 17 years ago the fact that I was a twice divorced older fella meant that I should have let her stay single for him.
She reckons in his case I did her a favour.
It’s a very fine line which I’m treading between defending the freedom of anyone to love anyone they want within the law and just saying zb it why bother when I’ve lost more from the idea of older blokes being with much younger women than I’ve ever gained from it or ever will.
Just let the dogs loose in which case they’ll eventually be kicking in the doors and dragging away any bloke whose 10 years older than his wife let alone 27.
As for me as I’ve said I’m waiting for the next life zb this one.
Carryfast,
If you had married the girl of your dreams all those years ago who is to say that it would have been an eternally happy union, then if it then went wrong and you split up you would feel worse about it than you do now.
I was with my second attempt at getting it right for about 11 years (I think) and to me that was perfection with a thriving light haulage company under my belt, money in the bank and a 4 year old XJ6 as a runaround but one day she decided her first love was to the business & general expenses bank account (plus cash in hand jobs money) and ■■■■■■ off with the lot. I was more than gutted.
You may feel you have missed out but maybe fate decided you would be better off on your own rather than maybe even more emotionly damaged over a failed relationship.
But luckily life goes on, In the end I told myself to get over it and live the rest of my life to the best of my ability and stuff what had happened in the past. It were done and nothing would bring it back.
And after 7 years the biatch had me declared legally dead and got all the money from our joint owned house we bought for £12025 ( Northstead, Scarborough) and sold for over 50k a few years later
BTW the only connection this has to do with the original thread that was Jimmy (pervy) Saville was that one day I acted as a marshall on one of his charity runs outside Scarbro’ and when he passed our checkpoint he was in the back of his roller, cheatin basteward.
raymundo:
And after 7 years the biatch had me declared legally dead and got all the money from our joint owned house we bought for £12025 ( Northstead, Scarborough) and sold for over 50k a few years later
As far as the tax man is concerned … I am
She is still living (never had a good long happy relationship since though) Awe shame !
There is a little story of sweet revenge on my part though but this is a truckin forum not a broken hearts agony page, ha ha loved doing it though, teach the cow!!!