Hi truckerswidow I am divorced yes my ex cheated on me I left him I found somewhere to live he went to work night ( as he worked nights at the time ) i had a young son ( 3 years old ) yes it has been hard for the last 6 years I am still on my own but happy would rather be single and happy than married / relationship and unhappy
As he cheated I am not suer if I could trust him and if there is no trust then I dont think there is a relationship this is only my view
Good luck with your decision
BTW we do get on well now we dont live together and my son is fine for it my ex did re marry