kr79:
Charles and Diana now there’s an advert for a great marriage
I don’t think that had anything to do with the fact that she was younger than him.Who knows what his thought process was at the time.
But if you’re right that no one should be allowed to date anyone 5 years outside their own age range I wouldn’t have complained about having the chance to have dated her instead of him getting her if she’d have put an advert in our local paper that there was a 17-19 year old girl 3 years younger than me just up the A3 in town who was looking for a husband.
Although the young council truck driver steals princess to be from too old for her prince would probably have made headlines around the world.
I never said people shouldn’t be able to date someone with more than a five year age gap I said most couples I see are around the same age.
But I don’t think it was the middle aged playboys that stoped you pulling.
kr79:
Charles and Diana now there’s an advert for a great marriage
I don’t think that had anything to do with the fact that she was younger than him.Who knows what his thought process was at the time.
But if you’re right that no one should be allowed to date anyone 5 years outside their own age range I wouldn’t have complained about having the chance to have dated her instead of him getting her if she’d have put an advert in our local paper that there was a 17-19 year old girl 3 years younger than me just up the A3 in town who was looking for a husband.
Although the young council truck driver steals princess to be from too old for her prince would probably have made headlines around the world.
I never said people shouldn’t be able to date someone with more than a five year age gap I said most couples I see are around the same age.
But I don’t think it was the middle aged playboys that stoped you pulling.
I know I’ll never be totally zb perfect like you are so I’ve got no chance.But the bit that I don’t get,using your expert judgement in these matters,is if Oliver Reed could pull Josephine Burgh,when she was 16,surely you’re not saying I would have made a worse husband for her than he would have done.
The latest rumour is that Sir Jim was buried in a good tracksuit so if archeologists dig him up in a few hundred years, they’ll think they’ve discovered a pharoah.
raymundo:
There ya go CF, showing your preference for even younger girls again
It was just that typical short 1980’s hair style that wasn’t as good as when she had the longer hair in some of her previous photos taken during the 1970’s when she was younger.If she’d have kept to her 1970’s look during the 1980’s she’d probably still have looked just as good in her 20’s as in her mid teens.
But wives certainly age faster than their husbands which is one of the reasons why there’s no harm in having a decent age gap between them.Although some are obviously larger and less acceptable to society in general than others.
FarnboroughBoy11:
So this bird I met was 17 and in answer to your other question yes I think we will see each other as friends in a group but I wouldn’t go and meet up with her one on one because I feel she still a bit too young for me however if I was 19 I think that would be ok. I think a 17 year old is a grey area but at the end of the day if I had to think about it then it’s not comfortable is it.
So if there’s any evidence out there that Prince Charles was seeing Diana Spencer on a ‘one to one’ basis would you have a problem with that .
If not I think you’re splitting hairs about the girl’s age and you’ve lost the plot in worrying about the 7 year age gap.
No I haven’t got a problem with that as it happens. Maybe I’m just too nice, I still think a 17 year old still doesn’t know what she wants and I doubt her old man would be happy about it either. Like I say,17 is a grey area for me, I’ll probably poke her when she’s 18 anyway if I’m single by then, I’m in no rush.
Blimey you’re right her dad probably wouldn’t be happy wether she’s 17 or 18 with that attitude to his daughter.But then maybe it’s just the age thing that matters these days so he’ll probably prefer her being ‘poked’ by someone of her own age than by someone a lot older who would have said along the lines she’s good enough to marry the sooner the better before thinking about shagging her.
I don’t get what your saying, as soon as you meet someone you don’t straight away want to marry her, that thought shouldn’t even enter your mind until way into the relationship and if you loved her.
You seem to be trying to hard cf, you’ve said in a lot if your posts going “out to find a young wife” … You shouldn’t be looking it should just come natural.
And also, how can you even think about marriage before you have had ■■■ with her, you have to know if you are physically compatible as well and mentally.
What if she has a yeast infection and her fanny smells? You won’t find out until your on your honeymoon, that would be a ■■■■ shame
That would have been Prince Charles’ marriage with Diana Spencer out then.I didn’t say absolutely no ■■■ before marriage just that it shouldn’t be a case of ■■■ before knowing wether she’s definitely going to at least be ‘the one’ if it all works out and that doesn’t take forever to find out.
Why shouldn’t it?? In fact I think you only realise if she’s going I be “the one” until you actually have ■■■ with them because that’s where you feel a connection, not just a shag.
So your saying you only have ■■■ with a bird if you think you are going to marry her later on down the line?
If so I respect that, but you make out like meeting a girl, having ■■■ with her, starting a family should be all regimented and controlled. It’s what comes natural.
I don’t think what would happen if/when I was with a girl who I liked enough to want to marry and who’s in her teens-early 20’s,who wants to start a family,would be regimented and controlled at all it would definitely be a case of doing what comes natural.But I can’t speak for anyone else though.Yes I am saying there shouldn’t really be any ■■■ involved in a relationship before a couple are ‘engaged’ enough to want to be married.You say you respect that so what’s your problem with what I’ve said .
Did I say “I respect that but I’ve got a problem with it” or did I say " If so I respect that" ■■?
You seem to look to far ahead and try to plan every thing too much, it shouldn’t matter what age you have a baby and certainly should not rush into anything just because the mother to be is getting older.
What’s more important, having a stable loving home regardless of age or having a ■■■■ home atmosphere where the young mum wants to still go out and ■■■■ it up with her mates every night after being rushed into having a child that they don’t really want?
FarnboroughBoy11:
You seem to look to far ahead and try to plan every thing too much, it shouldn’t matter what age you have a baby and certainly should not rush into anything just because the mother to be is getting older.
What’s more important, having a stable loving home regardless of age or having a [zb] home atmosphere where the young mum wants to still go out and ■■■■ it up with her mates every night after being rushed into having a child that they don’t really want?
Ironically for your argument there are actually women out there of all ages who’d disagree with that and who’d agree with my ideas.I think everything that I’ve said involves the girl being the one who makes the decisions as to what she wants and my idea is to look for those girls who agree with my own views as opposed to those,admittedly loads,who share your view of the situation.It’s not a case of rushing any girl into anything because it’s a case of just looking for a girl who doesn’t need to be ‘rushed’ at all because it’s already what she’s looking for herself.
The fact is there’s always been (a lot) more blokes out there who are looking for the type of girl who I’m looking for with my own views compared to the amount looking for the type which you’ve described and identified.The bit that’s relevant to this topic is that it’s those type which you’ve identified who are more likely to be the ones who ended up in the arms of blokes like Savile or other zb type relationships and often regretting it later.
It’s that distinction which probably explains why I’ve found myself facing competition from older blokes with same age wives and then dumped them at the first opportunity when they find one of the relatively fewer,but more in demand,early age homemaker type girls out there,as opposed to the typical out on the pish with their mates every night/career girl/casual ‘relationship’, type ones.No surprise which type that Prince Charles went for in that typical example of the times older bloke looking for a young wife.Although in that case it wasn’t the more common even older divorcee looking for a second chance in life to have another wife and family such as in the examples which I knew of and lost out to.
That isn’t a problem ‘unless’ some pc age police zealots then try to make age gap relationships off the menu at some point down the line in the future.In which case any displaced blokes,who’ve missed out previously,have any chance that they might have had in the future,to have a young wife and family wiped out.Which has certainly been the situation in my case as age gap relationship have gradually become more and more socially unnacceptable.
Ironically the recent Royal wedding seems to reflect the modern day same age marriage and leave having a family until later idea.Compared to the Charles Diana type one with it’s,relatively small for the day,age gap marriage,in which the aim was finding a young girl who wanted to marry and have her family while she was young,and it’s my bet that most blokes would be looking for the latter type of wife not the former.Which just leaves the issue of the demand for those type of girls and the freedom for any bloke to look for that type of young wife,regardless of age,so long as it’s within the law.
Carryfast:
Which just leaves the issue of the demand for those type of girls and the freedom for any bloke to look for that type of young wife,regardless of age,so long as it’s within the law.
FarnboroughBoy11:
You seem to look to far ahead and try to plan every thing too much, it shouldn’t matter what age you have a baby and certainly should not rush into anything just because the mother to be is getting older.
What’s more important, having a stable loving home regardless of age or having a [zb] home atmosphere where the young mum wants to still go out and ■■■■ it up with her mates every night after being rushed into having a child that they don’t really want?
Ironically for your argument there are actually women out there of all ages who’d disagree with that and who’d agree with my ideas.I think everything that I’ve said involves the girl being the one who makes the decisions as to what she wants and my idea is to look for those girls who agree with my own views as opposed to those,admittedly loads,who share your view of the situation.It’s not a case of rushing any girl into anything because it’s a case of just looking for a girl who doesn’t need to be ‘rushed’ at all because it’s already what she’s looking for herself.
The fact is there’s always been (a lot) more blokes out there who are looking for the type of girl who I’m looking for with my own views compared to the amount looking for the type which you’ve described and identified.The bit that’s relevant to this topic is that it’s those type which you’ve identified who are more likely to be the ones who ended up in the arms of blokes like Savile or other zb type relationships and often regretting it later.
It’s that distinction which probably explains why I’ve found myself facing competition from older blokes with same age wives and then dumped them at the first opportunity when they find one of the relatively fewer,but more in demand,early age homemaker type girls out there,as opposed to the typical out on the pish with their mates every night/career girl/casual ‘relationship’, type ones.No surprise which type that Prince Charles went for in that typical example of the times older bloke looking for a young wife.Although in that case it wasn’t the more common even older divorcee looking for a second chance in life to have another wife and family such as in the examples which I knew of and lost out to.
That isn’t a problem ‘unless’ some pc age police zealots then try to make age gap relationships off the menu at some point down the line in the future.In which case any displaced blokes,who’ve missed out previously,have any chance that they might have had in the future,to have a young wife and family wiped out.Which has certainly been the situation in my case as age gap relationship have gradually become more and more socially unnacceptable.
Ironically the recent Royal wedding seems to reflect the modern day same age marriage and leave having a family until later idea.Compared to the Charles Diana type one with it’s,relatively small for the day,age gap marriage,in which the aim was finding a young girl who wanted to marry and have her family while she was young,and it’s my bet that most blokes would be looking for the latter type of wife not the former.Which just leaves the issue of the demand for those type of girls and the freedom for any bloke to look for that type of young wife,regardless of age,so long as it’s within the law.
I get what your saying and don’t disagree as such.
However is it not a bit selfish as you will have lived your life through your teens 20s and even 30s before settling down and then look for a wife young enough so she won’t have a life in her younger years?
FarnboroughBoy11:
I get what your saying and don’t disagree as such.
However is it not a bit selfish as you will have lived your life through your teens 20s and even 30s before settling down and then look for a wife young enough so she won’t have a life in her younger years?
Ironically the ‘life’ that I ‘lived’ through my teens and 20’s would have been no different to that of the type of girls that I was looking for in that they were at the same partys etc looking for a husband and I was looking for a wife.
The problem for me was ‘who’ the pool of girls in my own age sector were looking for.In this case at worst they were often either the typical groupy type who were looking for a sordid casual ‘relationship’ with the Jimmy Savile type and the Gary Glitter type blokes or at best they were the type of homemaker type girls who I was looking for such as Prince Charles found or the ones in between who were obviously looking to give a married/divorced bloke another chance in life.
The common denominator in all those girls was that the age issue wasn’t ever a factor or even on their radar and they’d all happily leave single blokes of their own age,on the shelf ultimately,in this new world of age gap relationships,being seen as more and more unacceptable as time went on,to die single and without ever having had the chance to have a family.
Ironically for me it was having seen what was probably the last chance,during the 1990’s,with a younger mid teens girl,who was less than 20 years younger than me,who decided to give that chance to a divorcee who was over 30 years older than herself.So looking back lightning did strike twice in my case but missed me by inches a second time.
The definition of life in a girl’s ‘younger years’ can really only mean either that she’s out there looking for a bloke who’ll be the one for her and he’s looking for a girl who’ll be the one for him or it’s just a casual free for all in which the idea of a decent relationship is the last thing on anyone’s mind.
So not so very different to what was actually going between Savile and many of those girls backstage on TOTP etc and probably many the other groupy type birds of my own age with other older music stars like Gary Glitter.The fact is most of us teenaged blokes of their own age knew exactly what those girls were all about and had written them off as zb marriage material anyway so no surprise I’ve got no sympathy whatsoever for at least a lot of Savile’s so called ‘victims’ now.
While if you strip away all the age bs the same basic difference applies,between the type of party in which the blokes are looking for a wife and the girls are looking for a husband as opposed to a casual free for all and everyone forgets about it the next day,and still stands.The main thing that many of those girls girls were the victims of was their own stupidity and zb morals.
FFS CF, in your late teens and early twenty’s you shouldn’t have been looking for marriage material !!! You should have led an ordinary young blokes existence by dipping your wick in as many barrels of oil as you could manage…
kr79:
Judging by previous comments I think Carryfast from the don’t let them stray from the kitchen sink school.
Born in the 1950’s grew up in the 1970’s so not far from the truth.
But that’s obviously better than what those who decided to go for the new liberated permissive society found with zb Savile.
While as I’ve said there were,maybe still are,a few out there who preferred the old ways it’s just that they seemed to have preferred doing that with an older married/divorced bloke instead of a single one of their own age and now of course it’s the age thing that matters more than anything else.
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