davepenn54:
As for me as I’ve said and for dave penn’s benefit a girl of 25 would do fine thanks.Although as I’ve said I’d bet exactly the same bs claims would be made because it’s all about some zb’d up modern revulsion concerning age gaps.
I just couldn’t resist responding to this, I will be 59 in January and the Michelle highlighted at that bottom of my post’s is my late wife who tragically passed away in February this year, she was 32 
We had been together 9 yrs; also Michelle was the same age as my eldest daughter but no-one had a problem with our relationship because I’m not a pervert or ■■■■ after pubescent girls. I’ve been a single parent with shared custody of 2 girls until they were both 16yrs old and I’m now a single parent again of an 11 yr old boy who is not my biological son but I now have permanent residency and parental responsibility for him which I have fought very hard for through the family court system over the last 7 months and will soon have Special Guardianship granted.
Like I said carryfast if you did a bit more research within the whole forum and looked at other people’s post’s rather than pursuing your own limited agenda all the time and stop being a text book ‘Contrarian’ you might see a bit further than the end of your own nose. Oh and I’ve also worked with ■■■ offenders when I worked at HMP Leeds, HMP Wakefield and HMP NewHall between 1990 & 1996 and if you don’t want to take the bit of friendly advice I offered that’s fine by me, it was offered without prejudice but that is something you appear to be unable to understand never mind ‘intelligent debate’ 
Regards
Dave Penn;
I can’t see the connection with my references to the difference between the legal large age gap relationships,such as the one between Joe and Nicola Philpot,who no surprise was accused of being a ■■■■■■■■■■ but certainly wasn’t,as the fact that he (rightly) never ended up subject,to your attentions in the prison system and is still,at least so far,still happily married,to the girl now in her mid 20’s who he started seeing when she was 15 and he was 54,compared to the type of case such as the Savile case.
The same applies in the case of Jeremy Forrest,at least on the evidence so far,compared to the Joe and Nicola Philpot precedent and the one involving the marriage between Clive and Jess Richards.Going by the comments here if many of those posters had been in the police service and/or jury members those blokes could possibly now be in jail. 
In addition to that is the example which I’ve provided,related to my own experience,in losing out to someone who seems to be branded here as a ■■■■■■■■■■,but who the facts show certainly wasn’t in any way considering,as I’ve said,he’s been married to the girl in question up until at least recently since the 1970’s.
The frightening thing is how many of those offenders might have been there because of the type of knee jerk reaction such as those seen here,possibly based on just the differences between the views between different police staff in different areas and maybe made by a misinformed jury,to what have been proved to be,legal,decent,long term relationships/marriages,involving middle aged blokes which started when their wives were mid teens.Not to mention that my reference to such examples seems to then,in your view,require my attention to your experiences with such offenders. 
As I said at the beginning I think cases such as the Savile one can dangerously distort societal attitudes towards all types of large age gap relationships just based on the subjective views of certain people who just have issues with the age gap issue,at least in the case of legal relationships,involving couples of certain ages,on the basis of indiscriminately tarring every single case with the same brush.
who I’d actually prefer to any that I’ve mentioned previously,but she,let alone her Father,probably won’t see it that way unfortunately. 
