amamdada:
We have friends whose wife was a midwife and I know that the sector is constantly coming under pressure but she and a colleague left the NHS after many years and went into business as a private care provider, but maintaining her integrity in wanting to provide quality care and support not the 15 minute slots that social services specialise in where no actual meaningful care or support is given. They have gone from strength to strength and feel that they are really providing a worthwhile service the main reason they joined the NHS.
The final decision is yours to make but as Juddian says lorry driving ain’t much fun any more especially with some of unscrupulous firms operating out there at the moment.
I know amamdada
I know a few midwives in the private sector
to be honest I have done my time serving other people, I have been a midwife for 13 years and although I am very good at my job (am valued by customers and managers alike and get plenty of positive feedback etc) I am tired of it, I don’t think it is what I was meant to do in my life.
In fact I was a truck driver, goig into midwifery was something I tried as I found myself as a single mother and I wanted a job with a salary ok enough to provide a comfortable life for me and my son whilst feeling rewarding.
fast forward 16 years (3 of training 13 of practicing) I really do not think this is for me, in this job I give too much and get nothing back, you would say so it is truck driving, but in truck driving I don’t have the responsibilty on my shoulders if someone will live or die, become mentally retarded/disabled because of an oversight, I don’t have to give people advice on how to have a healthy baby or on symptoms they have. I also most importantly would not have to put up face all of the time, I could be who I am.
Ok ok in all jobs we have responsibilities and we have to deal with others, in truck driving you have to face your customers, also have to battle against illegal immigrants at calais, if you cause an accident you can easily kill people, etc, but on comparison for me it will be a lot less weight on my shoulders, I can be on my own in my cab, wake up and only have myself to report to, drive to destination, deal with customer and have paperwork signed, maybe get stopped by Vosa later in day but then pull up somewhere and have ‘me’ time before I nod off in my cab. I miss my cab and the road.
I have a couple of plans for my future but they may not work out.
If plan A works out I will still be in NHS full time for a little while (I will find out by end of september), if not plan B will be to quit my job, take on a full time truck drivers job but then I can still top up my driver’s salary with the ad-hoc agency shift in midwifery. I can still pay my NHS pension contributions with my ad-hoc midwifery shifts too so I will still have a pension.