OK here goes
Melchett:
robB39:
It is NOT acceptable, nobody as said it was have they?
But you are implying it’s acceptable when you say this…
robB39:
But if you are in a MANS job expect that sort of thing.
It’s not a “mans job”, it’s A JOB &, unless you’ve been locked in a cave for the last 20 years you will know that women are branching out & daring to be plumbers,bus drivers,truckers… Oh the horror.
Sorry I don’t agree. What is the percentage of all women in these professions??
It’s still a MANS job no matter how much you try and argue against it I’m afraid.
Melchett:
But, there is a line you don’t cross & this neanderthal went way over & got what he deserved! If he’d done the same thing in say a pub he could have been facing criminal charges… I reckon he got off lightly
You’re having a joke right?
robB39:
He depends on your relationship with the person who is being subjected to it…
Shall I repeat myself!!!
Melchett:
Really? Under what circumstances would it then be acceptable?
Lad mates muck about like this all the time and I’m sure if you go to U tube you will see vids and photos of mates engaging in said activity perfectly acceptable to them!!
Melchett:
robB39:
It also depends on how the recipient feels about it.
She didn’t seem to be too impressed!
I wasn’t being specific.
Melchett:
robB39:
Thats just it; it’s a very fine line. - In my opinion he was out of order.
It’s not a fine line, it’s a 3 lane motorway… if a woman wants you to touch her it’s pretty bleeding obvious, until then it’s HANDS OFF & no excuses.
I keep my hands off 'cos I ain’t sure. Perhaps she wouldn’t mind or she may take exception to it? I’ve never been able to work women out. When it comes to what is acceptable to them or not; they’re all different you see. As pointed out; - when someone she fancies does it; it’s flirting. When someone unwelcome does it; it’s ■■■■■■ harassment.
Melchett:
I’m not overly sensitive, this is a case of bullying at best…
We know what the case is. You see it as bullying I see as horseplay getting out of hand (in the first instance). Second instance if Lady P as already set out the parameters of their relationship after first encounter then it’s harassment. For it to be bullying pressure and intimidation has to be involved.
Melchett:
■■■■■■ assault at worst!
Rubbish. It’s only ■■■■■■ assault if intended that way. The same as a slap on bum. ALL BANNED NOW!! I know of a few women who didn’t mind a slap on bum from a nice guy or being wolf whistled. Is that the neanderthal mindset you’re referring to?
Melchett:
Just because it happened in the work place doesn’t make it any more acceptable than if it happened in the park,pub,street etc. Why should anyone have to resort to violence in their day to day work to fend off retards?
What are you babbling on about??..LISTEN!!
Like I said before it depends on the parties involved.
Some blokes think if it’s OK to muck about in such a way with their workmates so it’s OK if they’re female as well. So you have to expect it. If it’s not acceptable to you put them straight for fzbs sake. How many times do I have to repeat myself■■?
AS IT GONE IN YET■■?!!!
I expected better to be honest. But then again… pretty typical of the knuckle-dragging apes in society.