On the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month, we will remember them.
Before you all rush to fit BIG poppy’s to your grills I’d like to tell you a true story of what the word ‘remembrance’ means to me.
In the village I live in there were 2x 12yr old boys, bestest of best mates & totally inseparable. They thought it would be a good laugh to slightly alter the names carved into the Granite of my village’s war memorial, using their black felt tip pens while waiting for the school bus to arrive.
Just about everyone in that tight knit village saw them, Sam the Postie, Jessie on the milk float & Jocelyn at the newsagents to name a few . . .
At 10am they were called to the headmasters office, it was the early 70’s so there wouldn’t have been any problems when the local Sergeant of Police whisked them off to the station.
2x stupid, prepubescent ■■■■■■ sat giggling in the local copshop because they didn’t quite understand the depth of emotions that surround the names carved into that stupid Granite plinth.
When my father walked in, I literally ■■■■■■■ ■■■■ myself. My father had never ever raised his hand to me, but by Christ I knew he was angry that day. He walked into that Police station & instantly I knew I was in serious trouble.
He disappeared into a backroom with the Sargeant leaving my uncle in the waiting room with us, I distinctly remember taking my first breath for 5mins & staring at the floor when my uncle winked at me.
My dad walked straight past me, never even gave me a second glance, my uncle motioned for me to foillow them out to our Landy parked outside, I jumped in the back & thought that this couldn’t get much worse.
My uncle prompted me to stand not 10’ away from the memorial, me dad appeared seemingly from nowhere carrying a bucket & brush & promptly set about scrubbing my felt tip pen from the memorial.
There are 36 names on that memorial, it was made very clear to me that I should not move a muscle until I had memorised each & every one of them.