switchlogic:
Yes well Poland is perfect. Go to France and moan, you get the same reaction as here, or worse. Same in Italy etc etc. So your telling me in Poland they’ll change an the way an entire nation does things because a few foreigners moan? You strike me as someone who looks at their home country through rose tinted glasses, as we all do when we spend a lot of time abroad.
I got a feeling that you might look at your home country through rose tinted glasses not only when you are abroad. That’s not the case with me. I see al disadvantages of my home country, and that’s propably why I am not running to settle back there at the moment, despite that I’ve been there two weeks ago and I liked it.
No, Poland is not perfect, and if you understand correctly what I just wrote in previous post, you would know that I am aware that every nation will be unhappy when foreigners moan about it.
The different between Poland and UK is that we do not think that our country is the best in the world and we do everything the best way possible. Off course, the whole nation won’t change because of one moaning foreigner, but as we travel abroad, and we see some things which are good there, we try to implement them in our home country.
You would be surprised how many of good British solutions I never heard of 10 years ago are now popular in Poland - because we travel here, because Britons visit our countries and because everyone can see what’s better.
As for Britons: I give you an example: Two taps, one ice cold water, one boiling. Every single British friend of mine thinks that this is stupid and that tap when you can actually have water of required temperature to wash your hands without burning or freezing them is much better solution. Some of them were even brave enough to fit such caps in their homes during refubrishments.
Most of them though say “yes, this is stupid but it was always like it” and carry on as usual. Some of them are not even happy when I say this is stupid, even despite that this is exactly what they think. It’s just “we know it’s stupid, but it’s our British stupidness, so you shut up” attitude.
Just for you to compare (fact, not a rose tinted glasses): last time I saw two taps in Poland (except from some abandoned buildings) was about 25 years ago when my neighbours did long overdue refubrismnent of their pre-war bathroom. Poles know that it’s stupid as well, as Britons do. Poles fixed the Problem, Britons are unhappy about foreigners moaning and unhappy about using stupid taps. Yet they still use them.
Another thing:
For me moaning is “oh, how i don’t like it, oh, I can’t say why, but this is so wrong, you make me sick”. I don’t do that.
I ask the question: why something can’t work in UK if it’s working everywhere else?.
Why you don’t give me an answer? There might be a fair answer why Britain choosed to folllow different path. For example the British Shell requires signature confirmation when in Europe you just use your PIN. That could be perfect reason why they don’t allow shell cards on pay@pump (that off course brings another question why they require singature and don’t just use PIN numbers, but let’s leave it aside for the moment).
Instead of giving me that answer, you prefer to get a go about me moaning. I don’t moan. I just observe some facts and ask about them. You don’t like me pointing out facts you know are wrong, saying that I have no right to comment on them as I am foreigner. That’s your problem.
Say anything about stupid things in Poland (you are well traveled, so you propably been there as well) and I will either try to explain it to you or agree with you if I can’t see a reason for something being stupid. That’s the difference between you and me.
Next thing: I am sorry, but apart of being foreigner, I am also resident of the UK, I am paying my taxes here for more than 6 years now and I consider Scotland to be my home. Ok, it is the home I choosed, not the home I was born in, but I can’t see the reason why should I not have opinion on the bad things here. I am living here by choice, this is the best proof for that I value this country, the conditions for its residents, the freedom of speach (sic!) and other values which makes it nice to live here. But I won’t do everything you want from me - for example I won’t support yout rose tinted view on this country. Yeah, there are plenty of things which are great and some are not so great. If you don’t like me to moan about it, change it. Or just accept that some people might not share your likens.
There are many Polish commons my Brithsh friends don’t like - for example we had recently a BBQ and we were grilling Polish sausages. They would prefer to have some British ones, but they did not bringed any with them and we had only Polish ones. I won’t change it, because I like Polish ones more, if they come to my party, they have to live with that - just as I have to live with what I have here if I choosed to live in this country. But I can’t see nothing wrong with my friends expressing their opinions that they would prefer to eat British ones, just as like they have nothing agains me saying I prefer Polish ones.
Stupid example, but shows the point.
Well, you propably never read that anyway, as it’s too long for you 