crunch13:
robroy:
You can count your n/o money to whatever you like, but if you count it as wages, it gives a false impression of what you are really on…but there is nothing to stop the o/p using them as savings you’re right.
Why should the o/p ‘‘take no notice’’ exactly?
Maybe rather than being ‘’[zb]‘’ it’s a way of salvaging bit of enjoyment out of the job, and evidently a different way to how you do it.
It’s basically an alternative to making it a routine drudge of spending 11 hours in a [zb] lay by 4for 5 nights a week armed with a pot noodle …but I think everyone has explained that already, albeit unsuccessfully apparentlly.
I personally don’t spend EVERY night in Spoons, nor any other pub chain, nor consider it ‘‘cool’’ to do so, it’s about personal choice,.and also about the previous point I made about the job, and how to make it actually enjoyable.
Btw like minded trampers quite often meet up to socialise together believe it or not, so not a case of spending time on your own…just saying.
It doesn’t give a false impression of what I earn If I take home £800, I’m more than capable of working out that £100 of that is night out money but I’ve still earned £800 that week.
And you’re right, it’s personal choice but I can make my choice without berating others and calling anyone who does it a different way to me a hermit or comparing them to somebody in a YouTube video. My choice is to not spend the majority of my night out money while I’m away because I’d rather take it home and spend it on my kids. You do it differently and that’s fine. And there isn’t only your way of doing it or spending the night in a layby with a pot noodle either (I get parking paid on account for a start).
I feel that if I spent 5 days away from the Mrs and kids every week, spent all my night out money and went home with the same money that I could have earned on days, it would make me a bit of a [zb] to be honest. And personally I don’t see why anyone would do nights out if it wasn’t to earn a bit of extra money. But unlike you I appreciate that everybody is different!
And if that is the only way to make the job enjoyable as you say - then why do it?
Ok well done for being able to differentiate between your wage and night out subsistence, some can’t/don’t,.especially when you get job adverts saying ‘‘Our drivers earn x no of pounds’’ which in effect includes potential 5 nights out money, then you get drivers boasting about their ‘‘Good money’’ but when you deduct the 150 quid for their 5 nights out…not so great…
As for beratng, I’m sorry if my point was a bit close to home for you, but it’s more my personal opinion of somebody sitting all week in a cab on their own.
As for the You tube vid, it kinda makes my point,
If you prefer to live that way, fill yer boots, but as you say everybody’s different,.I’ve always looked upon nights out as part of the job, they don’t bother me, and I’ve always tried to make a positive of most of tramping and nights out, especially weekends away abroad in past times, sitting in a cab for 2 days and nights just to save money would have me climbing the walls, life’s too short,.again in MY opinion…
As for your veiled implication of me being a bit of a ■■■■ towards my wife and family, … well cheers for that, but I have a good wife who would not, and does not expect me to sit thoroughly bored all weekend or at nights, .and accepts that my subsistence was mostly my own pocket money…oh yeh.m and fyi my kids were never deprived at the expense of anything I did mate, trust me.
Btw I also get parking paid on account, but msa parking does nothing for me.
Why do I do it?..Maybe because I enjoy it and make the best out of it…here’s a curveball for you maybe partly because I used to enjoy the social aspect of it which was largely prevalent when I started it.