toonsy:
dozy:
toonsy:
Reference Christmas Dinner…
Poke it.
Vile pretentious meal.
Why not just call it a Sunday roast, that’s all it is unless you’re so pathetic and view it from the lens of peering through your own ringpiece
Disagree , Xmas dinner is all about spending time round the table with family , aunties , uncles , cousins etc etc , it’s a day for the whole family , in most cases the only day throughout the year when the whole family get together , love it ( though this year it will be just me & mrs & a beach , will miss it though
I do unsterstand though as a supermarket driver Xmas /new year will mean nothing to you as you’ll working , I guess one of the benefits employed drivers often speak of , 1.30 am start on New Year’s Day !!
Im off from Dec23rd until Jan 2nd, cheers.
Last Christmas Day, I tried and failed to give my dad CPR and he died on his kitchen floor following a heart attack so forgive me for not feeling the festivities.
I feel for you , my son was stillborn 34 yrs ago at Xmas , not Xmas day but over Xmas , we knew he was going to be stillborn , but they still deemed it the best thing for my wife to give birth , it was a harrowing time for both of us , but especially my wife , i held my son , I can still see him now , he looked perfect , I’m not a emotional person but I was then , why us , my wife had miscarried 2 times already , I can still see that look on my wife’s face , heartbreaking , that was it we didn’t want children , we did , but how could my wife go through it again
2 yrs later my wife after struggling gave birth to my girl who was rushed straight away to special care as he kidneys weren’t functioning properly they saw that through pregnancy but didn’t want me or wife worrying
I’ll never forget my son , I’ll always wonder , he’d be 34 now , what would he look like , be like , would we go to the football , go for a pint , would he look like me , his mum
But however much it hurts I’ve a daughter that I had to give the best life to I could , how could I spoil her Xmas when she was little , it’s difficult but you have to do the best you can in the circumstances , I love my boy , but I also love my girl , I miss my brother who died of mnd on 5 th nov 8 yrs ago , I don’t stop thinking about him , but I have to also think of sil , 2 nieces, there kids , so we remember my brother by taking the little ones to a lovely bonfire , they love it , there too young to remember my brother , there grandad , but I know he’d be happy what I try to do
And the same for Xmas , we often laugh at stories about all the family , dad , mil, brother , aunties , uncles etc we’ve lost , but the ones who are still here have to make the best of times like Xmas we can , as we won’t be here for ever , and just seeing little ones eyes light up when they open there presens would I’m sure get a seal of approval from above
Hope you have a better Xmas mate