Prostate problems

Had blood tests as peeing a lot & doctor said at 59 it could be prostrate , tests came back with a psa of 8 , according to doctor it should be 3 , doctor got me down within hour for finger up bum check , found hard spot / raised & thinks I’ve had it for while , getting me appointment at hospital in next 2 weeks , head is everywhere , thinking the worst & worried sick about mrs on her own & daughter
I always thought I was the strong type but this has really knocked the stuffing out of me ,you can’t turn the clock back but wish I’d done something 2 years ago when all this started
Can only reiterate what others say , don’t wait / ignore symptoms & get it checked
Nb I’ve had nothing other than peeing a lot at times , others fine , no blood in pee etc so if your peeing a lot get it checked