DGSA2:
dozy:
I always put my family’s safety above saving a few ££££ so would stick a new one on it
Okay, this is a cheap shot. Did you get that advice from your Dad?
My dad died of leukaemia when I was 19 , my life in them days revolved around getting ■■■■■■ up , football & women , dad was pulling his hair out with courts , my name in papers , embarrassing the family ( though my aunty who was a teacher loved me , had a folder of everything I got upto) rather than whether I had a puncture or not
I carried on for years thinking all that mattered was Me , then after mrs having 3 miscarriages, our boy was still born ,
my girl was born & rushed straight to special care as her kidneys weren’t functioning properly , I spent nights watching her with my mrs willing her to live , praying for her to live ( I’ve never prayed in my life before ) ,
Finally it clicked , life wasn’t just about Me , there was a mrs who after 3 miscarriages/ still born boy / daughter struggling & my little girl needed me to grow up & look after them , my priorities are them being happy / safe / loved , so £100 for a tyre is nothing , I’d ■■■■ that up the wall in a weekend , most weekends .
If you’re happy to have punctures mended good luck to you , if joe bloggs & his mates want to get them mended good luck to them ,
I lost a son , I’ve not seen him grow up , I’ve not been able to play football down the park , go for a pint with him ,I’d often sit on park bench watching dads playing football with there boys and think why not me , so I don’t want to risk loosing my girl , mrs for a £100 or so , to lots I’ve no doubt it’s a wate of money , but to me as I said it’s not , I’d not forgive my self if mending that tyre cost withers life ,.
Nb it’s my girls birthday in a weekish , I’ve spent £1500 on a holiday for her ( I did think that was a lot ) , £500 on a Samsung tablet , paid her car insurance £286 , £250 apx for car to be mot / service , nails / hair etc , clothes / meal , so yes where my girls concerned she’s spoilt ( 32 ) , mrs is the same , tanning / nails / hair / clothes / holidays ( though not so much since covid ) ,
There’s a saying , you don’t know what you had until you loose it , I lost a son , I don’t want to loose mrs / girl
Nb and don’t get the idea I’m some kind of perfect husband , far from it , maybe that’s it as well , I’m trying to make up to my mrs for all those years when I’ve been a nightmare for her , her mums words at our wedding ( she only came for her daughter ) was I was the worst thing that ever happened to her daughter , she hated me , said I was just a ■■■■ artist , she was right ,
Life isn’t easy , I wish I could turn the clock , but you can’t , how ever much I’d loved to , imagine not having spoke to your Bil for 30 yrs , sil the same , nephews , sister 8 yrs , 1/2 sister 35 yrs
Anyway time to put the cider down & say my good nights , I’d love to say I feel better getting 61 yrs off my chest , but I miss my son , love to have seen him grow up