all the best whatever you decide Bones. I know a little bit what its like, I aint seen or spoke to my mother or 2 of my sisters in over 5 years after a row in the family, they live all within 2 miles. One sister I do have some contact with. Its tough to decide whether to be the one to make contact and all that, and maybe tough to do if the decisions made to go through with it I dunno, so good luck whatever you decide, I aint made my own mind up as yet.