jammymutt:
I suppose loads of you would say throw him out hes a bad man but being 100% honest with each other is not easy but i would say its a great strength in a relationship.AND OH yes your right i wasnt being honest at the time i had the fling but its not something i hid from her.
Honesty is everything in a relationship, no matter what the problems are, and affairs aren’t much different. We’re all human, we all make mistakes, and we all have our reasons for them. But if there’s total honesty, then a marriage can survive anything. Its the lying that ruins trust, not necessarily the actions. At least thats my opinion.
I wouldn’t take her too much for granted though Jammy, sounds like ya got yourself a good wife. Forgiving once is one thing… repeat performances aren’t likely to get you the same results. 