Weve been together now since 84. I was already a driver of course when we met, and it only caused a ruckus when the kids were really young, as they were close in age, and she didnt want to cart all 3 of them about all the time. I did home every night jobs for about 7 years during that time. To be honest, all of the strife thats nearly got us divorced before now was down to the drink, and the bands I played in. The driving never really came into it, and still dont. But then again, the father in law fell foul of the old while the cats away thing, and her mom jumped ship, so my missus knows all about it and that might have made a difference. Its the best its ever been for the last 6-7 years in spite of the fact I tramp, and will continue to do so, but mainly thats down to I changed, she’s always been a good un.