It’s not the question that worries me it’s the paronia that the answer might cause readers that concerns me.
My mum and dad are still together and my dad drove all his working life my mum struggled to cope with the hours he worked when my sister and I were young but they made it, my dad was home every night though.
I on the other hand started tramping 12 months after getting my licence and my mariage was over within a couple of years we get on great now but accountants and truckers are too sureal a match even for me. 
Yes my job was seriously instrumental in our split.