MrH:
Maybe he had a point, he has been landed with a driver that thinks manual labour is beneath him, he gets to a drop with 3 x 50 kg parcels and the driver begrudgingly offers to get out the trolley but drags his heels and takes so long that by the time he has thought about it he had the job done, just maybe the complaint isn’t malicious but a genuine one from his point of view and perhaps he doesn’t want to paired with a work shy driver again? Remember we only have the benefit of one point of view from the OP the other side could be very different.
I’ve worked with the guy on another 2 occasions, no problems. Same story, carry this, carry that. It doesn’t bother me in the slightest if this is how HE wants to do things. I don’t and will always use the trolley if I see the need, i.e. over 20/30 Kg over a certain distance. Plain common sense.
The problem is not the carrying, it’s that he said I refused to carry. I didn’t.