I am very sorry to hear about your loss.
There was a beautiful baby boy in the family, very very almost reached full term but didn’t make it to the birth date. I was one of tbe bearers of this extremely tiny little coffin & the mother of the baby was the other bearer. It was the descision of tbe mother & father to do it this way , family being very close & all. It was heart breaking. The weaths were of teddy bears & other things suitable for a baby.
Your tie sounds a nice choice .