Stop treating her like she is a child…tidying her room,chasing after her,sorting out all her issues,time she grew up,stop EVERYTHiNG you do for her then she may actually realise how much you did for her and show you a bit of respect.
My lads 7 years old and I’d never dream of cleaning his room for him that’s his job,he even has to hoover it himself,granted under supervision.