I have a child with an ex… as many many people these days do. I have full sole and legal custody, due to circumstances that I won’t bore you with. But I allow my son’s father total and complete access, and do NOT understand women that do not. The legal papers state that he has 48 hours of continuous visitation every fortnight… and thats all that I’m legally obligated to provide… but my obligation goes much further than the courts dictate. I have a responsibility, as a mother, to encourage as much contact between my son and his father as I can. Regardless of what problem we may have had during the relationship, I obviously thought enough of him to have a child with him at some point, and the failure of the relationship does NOT give me the right to stand in the way of my childs relationship with his father. Some of these women need a wake up call!!!