I must admit it’s her job that causes more problems than mine. She is always “just getting caught” etc.etc & thus not being here when she has promised to be Grrrrrrr.
As for my job, she is use to me saying I’ll only be a few hours & then phoning from 200 miles away the following day as I head in the opposite direction to home. But if I promise to be back I make sure I only take jobs that ensure I will be.