Apart from the ignorant, there are the true friends who have given me support only to have bigger problems themselves, people like 'Bruce' a friend of mine who left the company to become a long haul O/O, he and I have kept since he left byway of Facebook etc and we have exchanged insults in fun, usually referring to either of us being born out of wedlock LOL.
During the night Bruce sadly died of a heart attack in the sleeper of his much loved Western Star somewhere in Texas

RIP Bruce my old friend.