Well, I can't really say what my secret girlfriend does

More like the analogy of the de Caprio scene in the film Titanic where he stays in the water to provide Rose with a chance on the floating piece of wreckage.IE after the fact but still the recognition that a man should be the one to face death rather than a woman wherever possible.
In addition to the scenario of a man staying on a fast sinking ship to provide a woman with a place in or time to board a lifeboat.IE prevention still based on the idea of male protective instincts towards women.

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if i was on a cruise and i heard the tannoy shouting abandon ship,then on way or another id be coming out of the cabin with all bases covered.

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