Thanks for the support everyone. We’ve got a flat sorted not far from here and missus and I will stay as a couple but live apart!
My lad’s a good un really, but there is a personality clash and all sorts of other issues, so it is probably best. He’s been warned though, that one step out of line and out he goes 
Can’t get a phone line in for about 3 weeks so my vivits here will be when I can get back to partrner’s house.
See you all soon, and thanks again.